
“My wife Tresa and I both hurt deeply knowing that there are so many children around the world with no one to love or care for them, so with three biological children already we decided to look into the possibility of adopting to add to our family. We met with an adoption counselor about international adoption. She began to explain our limited options in regard to the high costs, and in our case the only exception would be if either of us was Native American. Tresa is, in fact, Native American and through this we very clearly felt God opening a door for us to walk through.
“In 2004 we welcomed Aja Leigh to our family and in 2007 TJ arrived. Most recently, our family was blessed with the addition of our daughter Cherish. Although the adoption process for Aja and TJ went quickly, it was a totally different story for Cherish’s adoption. During our waiting period we knocked on MANY different adoption doors (international adoption as well as adopting domestically from the foster care system), but every door seemed closed to us. When at least we received a phone call from our agency asking us to come meet with some birth parents, we felt very sure that God had been deliberately saving us for this child. Our family was an exact match to everything these parents wanted, including the birth mother being enrolled in the same tribe as Tresa, making us eligible to adopt the baby!
“We were delighted to bring Cherish home from the hospital two days after she was born. We all immediately fell in love with her, but our circumstances soon changed. Just days after Cherish was placed with us, our social worker called to tell us the birth mother decided not to go through with the adoption plan. We were in shock. That evening, we grieved and cried. When we took her back to her birth parents, our hearts and lives were empty, raw, and hurting.
“The following months were understandably filled with questions about why God had allowed this to happen. God very gently, but firmly reminded us that He is God, and what He does is always right…no matter if we can see it or not! Just after we were told we had to take Cherish back, we received an email from Show Hope indicating they had received our application but that they needed some additional information to continue the process. How confusing! Because we had lost our referral, we didn’t understand the need to move forward with our grant application. Our social worker encouraged us to simply talk to Show Hope, asking them to allow any grant money awarded to be used with a future referral of another child. Show Hope was a blessing to us when we called to explain our situation. They asked if they could pray for our family and Cherish, and brought us much needed encouragement.
“Just two months after we lost Cherish, our social worker called again. This time she told us the birth mother realized she truly wasn’t able to care for Cherish and that she wanted to move forward with the adoption plan. We were overjoyed! As we waited for our court date to arrive, we received a letter from Show Hope announcing that we had received an adoption aid grant! God truly is ‘Our Provider!’
“God is so good and we’re thankful He took our family through that painful experience. We learned to trust Him, even when we can’t see His hand. We are also thankful for the Show Hope sponsors who support their work. We would have moved forward with our adoption plans even without the financial assistance of a Show Hope adoption aid grant, but it would have been EXTREMELY difficult. God knows the needs of all His children, and always provides for them. In this case He chose to use Show Hope and we are so thankful for that!”
-Daniel P





























