
“My husband John desired to adopt ever since he became a believer in Jesus Christ. At that time, I was not ready but remained open to the possibility for the future. By the time we had 5 biological children, God began working in both of our hearts to think more seriously about adoption. At the time, we had friends who were asked if they would adopt a young child with special needs who they were fostering. When they decided to adopt this little boy, we were truly touched to see the love they extended to him…love from God. When we saw him months later, we were amazed to see the developmental improvements their son made after being brought into their family.
“Because of this experience, John and I began researching and praying more specifically about adopting a child with special needs. Children with even minor special needs are often abandoned and cast aside, especially in orphanages. These children face the reality of not having someone to love them and they also may not receive any education or therapy to develop their potential. Orphans may face neglect, abuse, and lack of medical attention. We grieved as we learned more about the plight of orphans, particularly those with special needs. From the beginning, our 6 year-old son (who really wanted a brother, having only 4 sisters!) had a special interest in Sean, a little boy with Down Syndrome in Eastern Europe who we saw on a shared list.
“Even in those early stages of the process, we understood that one of the greatest roadblocks for us to adopt was finances. We knew that if it was God’s will that He could and would provide. We were humbled when another mom, whom we didn’t know at the time, started organizing a local family festival as a fundraiser for our adoption. Soon afterward, we committed to adopting Sean and began the long process of medical and fingerprint appointments, preparing our dossier, and hosting our own adoption fundraisers. I applied to Show Hope knowing we would need further assistance to bring Sean home. We were aware that there were many families like us applying for grants, but in faith we just kept doing what we could and trusted God to provide one way or the other. We were very surprised and blessed when we heard we received a Show Hope adoption aid grant! It was a great encouragement to us!
“When we traveled to adopt Sean, we saw first hand what it was like at the orphanage. The many, many children with no home and no family would smile at us and say “mama?” and “papa?”. We were sad, but knew God was sovereign. After 2 weeks, I came home to be with our youngest children and our oldest daughter stayed with my husband to complete the wait period and bring Sean home. Then the real fun of learning to be a family began!
“Sean has adapted very well—I’m amazed at how well he dealt with all the changes in his life. Suddenly he had a family, traveled in a car, train and airplane, saw new places, had a new home and had people talking to him a different language! It has been very meaningful to be with for Sean so many “first” experiences…from praying and singing to God to seeing the ocean to petting animals to kisses goodnight. While it has been an adjustment for all, there is a lot of love and laughter in our family. God has given our entire family a heart for orphans…we can never forget what He opened our eyes to. We hope to advocate for and help more orphans with special needs.
“‘Once our eyes are opened, we can’t pretend we don’t know what to do. God, who weighs our hearts and keeps our souls, knows that we know, and holds us responsible to act.’ ~Proverbs 24:12″
-Traci Adamson
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